Good Will
After months of chaos and uncertainty, I’ve made it past the interview stage for a stable job opportunity that feels vital for my survival. Financial instability has pushed me to seek improvement and security, driving me to build a strong foundation. This week is crucial; landing this job means the start of progress.
Clearing the Mind with Action
This reflection emphasizes the importance of completing unfinished tasks, which cultivates momentum, clarity, and confidence. By transitioning from mere intentions to actions, the author finds mental space and presence, mitigating feelings of guilt and distraction. This proactive approach transforms task completion into a natural habit, enhancing various life aspects.
Step Your Game Up
A moment of clarity, a challenge from my brother, and a turning point I couldn’t ignore. There are moments in life that hit harder than expected—not because they’re loud or dramatic, but because of who says them and how true they feel when they land. Recently, I had one of those moments during a conversation […]
🌤️ Staying Positive When Things Get Dark
It’s been a tough journey, but I’m choosing to keep going—and to believe that better days are still ahead. It’s been a struggle lately. For months, I’ve been obsessing over landing the perfect job in tech, worrying about my future, and stressing over debt. Things have been difficult, and I’ve been stuck in a loop […]
Building Connections: A Journey of Small Wins and Incremental Growth
In my 30s, I find myself starting over in my career, focusing on networking and building connections. I grew my network to over 1400 through persistence and relationship-building. Despite challenges like waiting for employer responses, I celebrate small victories that motivate my progress. Growth is incremental; every effort counts.
Crashing Out Isn’t Failure — It’s Your Body Saying “Enough”
The writer shares their struggle with burnout, financial pressures, and job insecurity while pursuing a tech career. They reflect on the challenges of balancing dreams and reality, the impact of their identity, and the importance of self-care. Despite setbacks, they emphasize resilience and the necessity of rest in their journey.
Overhauling My Personal Website: Why It’s Time for a Major Update
From Placeholder Text to a Fully Iterative Portfolio and Blog — My Journey Toward a Better Online Presence For the past year, my personal website, rsoemardja.com, has been, well, a placeholder. I’ve been so focused on other projects, especially career transitions and skill-building, that I didn’t give my own online portfolio and blog the attention […]
Catching Up: The Overwhelming Struggle of Balancing Priorities and Moving Forward
The author reflects on the overwhelming mental clutter caused by numerous responsibilities, emphasizing the need for clarity and focus in their life. Major priorities include securing an IT job, revamping their portfolio, exploring entrepreneurial opportunities, and resuming the #100DaysOfCode challenge. The goal is to regain momentum and maintain balance amidst chaos.
The Importance of Giving Yourself “Space” in the Hustle Culture
The post emphasizes the importance of balancing work and rest for sustainable success. It critiques hustle culture and advocates for creating mental and emotional space to recharge. By integrating breaks, disconnecting from screens, and reflecting on goals, individuals can enhance productivity while avoiding burnout, fostering long-term well-being and ambition fulfillment.
Tech Envy and the Long Road to Clarity
The author expresses a desire for risk-taking in entrepreneurship yet recognizes the necessity of stability first. Despite feeling envious of successful peers, they focus on mental clarity and securing a stable tech job as a foundation for future creative pursuits in game development and entrepreneurial ventures. Stability is framed as essential for calculated risks.